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Dear Phenomenal,

I don’t want to talk about what you’ve been told. 

I don’t want to talk about the negative talks you consistently put yourself in and we know you tend to push yourself back and talk yourself in a negative way. Please stop! Stop talking bad about yourself because you are more than whatever negative is on your mind. Your negative thoughts are your imagination because it isn’t true what negative thoughts run through your mind. How about we turn those negative thoughts into positive thoughts? Deal?…….Deal.

You are astonishing. Do you like how I used that word because it is the truth. You are someone who is chasing your dreams, you are someone who is focus on making it happen, you are someone with goals, you are someone with a purpose and you are someone with a beautiful spirit and heart. Your growth has been a challenge but, I like how you are not letting your situation get the best of you. You may have some tough bumps on the road but, you smile whenever you feel the hope of something better is coming your way. I believe your smile, your purpose, your love for yourself and for others, your imperfection self and your beautiful journey of life are what makes you truly amazing. More astonishing because you are simply incredible.

There’s a list of things about you that makes you truly amazing. I don’t care what happened in the past, I don’t care if someone says “You are not going nowhere in life.” and I don’t care if “they’re” doubting you. I care about who you are today, I care about who you are becoming, I care about what you see in you, and I care about what you believe in. Whenever someone tells you how amazing you are and you’re surprised because you’re used to someone telling you how you’re not worthy but, truth be told you shouldn’t hold on to what you’re used to. You should see what people see in you. You are worthy. You should see what you see in yourself.

You owe it to yourself to see the importance of who you are. You owe it to yourself to see the love you deserve. You owe it to yourself to see the happiness and peace you deserve. Think about your journey and think about your growth, you’ve come a long way and yes, you have some work to do but, you are doing something for you and don’t forget to choose yourself. When you love yourself, no one can tell you anything about yourself. Think about your dreams, the vision God placed in your hands, and those goals you’ve written down because it’s important to understand your purpose and don’t give up on the reason why you started in the first place. You are enough and you are astonishing because there’s only one you. There’s only one of a kind you. It is your life, your journey to learn, your journey to grow and to live.

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